Erica Allison

When Consuming Social Media, Chew Your Food Slowly

The other day I heard a report that evaluated how quickly we chew our food, or rather, the number of times we chew our food and how that affects our overall consumption of food.  Ultimately, too much consumption (without any energy expended) can result in becoming overweight, or worse, obese.

This particular study found that when test subjects were told to chew their food 15 times before swallowing, they consumed more than subjects who were told to chew their food 40 times.  Those who chewed their food 40 times before swallowing consumed less food and felt full after eating.  I found this fascinating.  

My husband and I both work, have two children and while we are committed to eating together as a family every night—at the dining room table, without the television on—these are not what you might call leisurely meals.  We consider the fact that we’re eating together at all a small miracle.

The Experiment

So, in typical fashion, I launched my own little experiment with the family the other night and the results were amazing. First, we had to really concentrate on what we were doing (eating) in order to even reach 40 ‘chews’ per bite before swallowing.  It became an exercise in observation and active participation in the meal itself, rather than consuming in order to move on to the next thing on the schedule.

I began to really taste what I was eating and evaluate whether or not I liked it. My son really got into it, giving us blow by blow accounts of his stats as he ate.  He’s been known to shove rather large bites into his mouth, barely chewing, gulping down and then moving on to the next thing before he even registers if he’s full.  He’s not alone, on any given night we’re all looking for more food within an hour or two after our meal.

Slowing down and actually digesting what we were eating did in fact lead to a feeling of fullness –we were satiated.

The Social Media Buffet Effect

Anyone else beginning to draw a correlation here with our ‘consumption’ of social media? It hit me like a lightning bolt.

We’re guilty of gorging on anything and everything in an effort to keep up and stay ahead, without really digesting what we’re reading, and in many cases without ever feeling satisfied.

How in the world should we address this phenomenon when we’re all (business owners, marketing strategists, PR pros) encouraged to be “up to date,” “stay ahead of the trends,” and “be in the know?”

I challenge you to not get caught up in the great big social media buffet that is before us. Refrain from becoming a glutton and “hoovering” up the latest trends, then just as quickly spewing them out to everyone in your stream without fully understanding what you’ve just read.

Your audience wants to know things. They want to know about the things that you have experienced, used, researched and yes, consumed.  Avoid stuffing yourself so full that you forget to actually digest and worse yet, misunderstand what you’ve just read, shared and now hold “authority” on.

“Wow, that’s really Pinterest-ing!”

Take Pinterest for example. I’m on it. Barely use it. Not quite certain of my plan for it and literally cringe every single time I get an alert that someone I know is following me.

But my goodness it’s HOT.  Am I writing posts on it? Absolutely not.  I share what I understand and find interesting, but I’ve not yet taken the time to consume and digest what is before me.  There are plenty out there doing just that (ahem, Gini Dietrich). Until I have the time and fortitude to actually dig in and chew each bite slowly so that I digest it, you’ll not hear anything ‘pinteresting’ out of me.

Slow Your Roll, People

It’s ok not to be ahead of the curve or creating the next big trend or crafting the box within which you will ultimately get out of.  It really is.  Chew your food and your information slowly.  Savor it. Figure out how to perfect it. Digest it. Understand its implications.

Your waistline and your audience will thank you for it.

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Love, love, love, this! I wrote something similar a month or so ago. My message was stop reading and start DOING! It's funny - I think that we often feel that reading all sorts of good stuff will magically get us to where we want to be. While reading does give us knowledge, it doesn't actually help us unless we apply what we've learned. If people actually implemented all of the wonderful (and free!) tips that we read, it would be amazing what would happen. Thanks for the wonderful reminder!

@lauraclick Thank you, Laura! Not sure why I missed this comment from long ago - but glad to see it and have the opportunity to respond. You're right, when we read, we can forget that unless we do something with it, we don't really get it. I find that many folks also try to rush out and do EVERYTHING that they've read before digesting and that can be a rocky road for them.

Hi Erica, I accept your challenge! Taking things slowly is a challenge in a world where things move so quickly. I think it's important to weigh and measure the new things to see if they actually will take you where you want to go! Not every "HOT" fad is right for everyone! I think I'd have to quit my business and my blog if I started onto Pinterest! Yikes! I don't dare go there! Great food for thought Erica! Lori

I also will be pushing away from the table more regularly as I work ON my business, not just IN it:) Cheers! Kaarina

@KDillabough Yay, Kaarina! I've had to - no real choice in the matter. However, knowing how I love to track things like this, I've also been watching what my lower frequency posting and my strategic engagement has gotten me. The results indicate that it's a positive move all the way around! You're blowing the comments out of the water over at lifeforinstance - I'm building up the courage to wade into the comment crowd. ;)

@EricaAllison lifeforinstance I do love to write, and I've been doing a lot of it lately, so thanks for the comment about my GP over at Lori's. The conversation it sparked was fun! But now it's time for me to do what has, up until now, taken a side burner, and that's tweaking my blogsite. Lots of work yet to do, but I'm pushing away from the table to do it:) Cheers! Kaarina

You should hear me cheering from here, Erica! And no way to remind us better than with the Pinterest example, either. You don't have to be perpetually out of breath to be on top of your game. Look at you with the lower frequency posts--knowing how busy you are, I love to watch you prove that just because you're not on our radar at all hours doesn't mean you've lost touch.

@ShakirahDawud Thanks, Shakirah! It's nice to know that I'm on the radar and that I've not lost my touch - at least that's my goal. I think quality, whether in consumption or production, trumps quantity every single time! Appreciate the support, Shakirah!

Thanks Erica. A great reminder on both fronts. Chew your food and your information SLOWLY. I feel like i have to digest so much, so I can keep up. What you say here, makes so much more sense. Thanks again for keeping it simple. I need that. No comment from you Gini. Ha. Take CARE. Al

@Al Smith I'm a simple kind of girl, Al and I'm glad that this post was helpful. I write about what I know and what I observe in this crazy online world we live in. People can get CRAZY over the new stuff and end up producing some really crappy content as a result (present company in the comment section excluded, of course). I'd rather not be one of those folks and instead be CAREful and mindful of how I obtain knowledge and even more so, how I use and share it. Thanks for coming by, Al!

What a perfect analogy! And, again, you've given me great justification to choose to order off the social media menu exactly what appeals to me rather than gorging at the SM Smorgasbord!

@MimiMeredith yay! Gorging makes you feel so yucky afterwards, too! ;)

WHAT?!? I'm addicted! I can't help it. I have a problem. I'll bet I spent 30 hours during the holiday break setting up my boards and gathering followers so I could gaze at their boards. Now I spend 15 minutes a day (I'd love to spend three hours a day) scrolling through to see if there is anything that catches my eye. But I have to say what saves me is the iPad app only gives you so many pins. And then you're done. If it went on for eternity, I might lose my job. On the eating thing - which is a true thing, as you found out - I used to work with a woman who tells the story of going to "fat farm." They would give you 10 raisins and say, "This is your snack and all you get to eat, so savor them." Just like your experiment, they would eat them very, very slowly. And she said she never wanted more raisins because she felt like she had enough. It's pretty amazing!

@ginidietrich Wow, you do have a problem! Thank goodness your iPad app puts some limits on you...Jack Bauer might just find you rocking in a corner somewhere while he's wondering around looking for food. In all seriousness, I'll leave the Pinterest research to you and continue to read about your progress. thanks!

Yes! I like to try something out for myself, take sometime to learn it a little and also taken in the perspectives of others. We live in a fast paced world and sometimes it's difficult to remember to slow down, breathe, there's no reason to beat someone to the punch. Take Apple for instance they didn't come out with the first computer or the first smart phone, they waited let everyone beat them to the punch, and then they came out with (in my opinion and clearly by the numbers many others) a computer and phone that far surpasses the ones who beat them to the punch. Slow and steady wins the race after all...it's a marathon not a sprint.

@rachaelseda Great example, Rachael. Apple didn't rush right out, but they did discover how to school those who did. I say hone your craft, really get to the level of mastery that keeps clients and others seeking you out year after year. But, we should also be mindful of the new stuff we need to keep that level of mastery going. Thanks, Rachael!

:) YES to all that! Meal times with little ones are a miracle for sure! I strongly feel that we don't need to be on every channel out there - yes, go out own your right to be there by registering but get to it when you want to. All too often people think that they need to be everywhere which is unsustainable if you are blogging for dough and not for show. Personally, I advise my clients to use the channels they are most comfortable with and ENJOY - the rest happens. For most of us, especially in the service industry social media and blogging are not our business - they are our tools. For me, I love to paint but it's messy and time consuming so for work I use pen and ink - I can paint, I can sculpt, I can do a lot of things but I enjoy pen and ink so I do that - the same rules apply to my social media consumption. (oh btw - I LOVE pinterest and I use it to satisfy my own gluttony for pretty things)

@Ameenafalchetto Little ones and meal times are when I sit and take them in - I treasure it. You and I are on the same page, Ameena - no need to be on every channel. I laughed out loud when I read johnfalchetto 's comment on your blog today - LOVE it >>for dough not show! (need to head back over and comment myself). I wish I could paint and sculpt. I like to decorate and redecorate and dream up crazy re-upholstery combinations for vintage furniture pieces. :) Thanks for coming by! Good to see you!

@EricaAllison The expression is actually from my brother who used to be a stock exchange pit trader in Montreal. In that high intensity job, one of the jokes was to call a trader a guy "who trades for show not for dough" :)

I'm gonna comment again b/c I hate it when Livefyre gives me zero points with my first comment.

@Soulati | PR There, I liked your noncomment. You have plenty of points from what I can see. Me, on the other hand, I have 0 points on my own blog. When did that happen? Where did my points go? I was hoping for a trip and extra miles, blackouts not included. Where's skypulsemedia ? Doesn't he speak for the Livefyre alien team?

Oh, man. This is so perfectly quality counsel with the exact right mix of parenting, family mixed in. As an aside, to your first point, we were not allowed to leave the table until dad was done. That's why he's the slowest eater in the world, and I'm the second (slowest). That said, to your second point, AMEN!!! Seems I say that a lot here. I have never logged on to Pinterest, Buffer, Tumblr and likely a few others. I can't. I'm unable to do what I'm supposed to do well and right. To spread myself so thin is doing my client service an injustice. Now, being able to understand and speak to these channels is one thing; engaging all day is another. Love it; great to see you again.

@Soulati | PR Love it that you love it!! ;) My dad was the same. We could not leave the table until he was finished. It taught us to be conversationalists and to be respectful. I'm often shocked when I eat with others and see family members finish early and leave the table - just wasn't an option for us. I seriously groan when I see a new person following me...there's an expectation that I should do something 'pinteresting' when that happens. Ugh! Thanks, as always for your support! You are #RockHOT!

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