Erica Allison

If you want me to PLAY, please, ask me to PAY.

Why buy it, when I’m just going to give it to you?

I know this sounds really odd, doesn’t it?  Am I, as the consumer, really asking that you make me pay in order to get something?  Why yes, I am.  I’m also doing it as the producer.  I’m speaking to the topic of “give-aways, free downloads, free webinars, and chapter downloads” that so many of us, present company included, have signed up for lately and/or contemplate using for our own marketing efforts.  I’m going to make the case right here, right now, that we all stop it.

Lemonade

Yep, I said it.  Stop doing it.  Stop it right nowYou give away enough for free.  Let’s use your blog as an example.  Most of the blogs that I read are ripe with information that most people would pay to get.  They just haven’t found yours yet.  Will giving potential leads an e-book take them to your blog? Perhaps, but they’ll first have to land somewhere first (Facebook page, website, blog) and if they are there already, I’ll bet there’s some content already in place that will keep them coming back for more.

We take it for granted that we so readily consume this content that could easily represent an hour or so of private coaching or consulting, or when added together, a semester’s program via an online university.  That information and knowledge so freely shared?  Gold.  It’s also FREE.

Let’s Rethink This. Where I would encourage you to pause and take a moment to really evaluate your marketing efforts is when you take it a step further and start giving folks a free download of your e-book, or offering a free webinar.  How many e-books have you downloaded in the last 4 months alone?  Go ahead, take a minute and think about it, go find them if you saved them.

Have you read them? If you’re like me, the answer is an embarrassed “no”.  It’s not because I don’t want to.  It’s because I DIDN’T PAY FOR IT.  You know what I am reading?  The books that I downloaded into my Kindle, the ones that I PAID for.   They have value to me because I used my money to buy them; therefore, I will read them first.

I have the free ones I’ve downloaded saved somewhere on my laptop that I hope to find one day when I have a few free moments and nothing else on the agenda.  The sad part of that equation?  That “time” is not likely going to come around soon.  Even sadder?  I’m sure it’s all really good stuff.  In fact, I know it is.  I hold these authors in extremely high regard and I follow their blogs religiously.  So why don’t I read their books?  Aside from the time situation, I DIDN’T PAY FOR THEM.

I paid for, downloaded and read Gary Vaynerchuck’s Crush It , Les McKeown’s Predictable Success, and I’m currently finishing up Content Rules: How to Create Killer Blogs, Podcasts, Videos, Ebooks, Webinars (and More) That Engage Customers and Ignite Your Business by Ann Handley and CC Chapman.  All great reads and all read upon purchase.  I PAID FOR THEM.

Why Buy It? In looking back, I realize that I purchased these books because of another person, an influencer, who recommended them. That’s important.  That’s my kind of marketing.  Word of mouth, referrals made by influencers, pointing me towards something that yes, I must purchase, but that undoubtedly has tremendous value.

I  know.  That’s the ideal scenario, right?  Someone with major pull (or not) tells someone else to check out my ‘stuff’ and from there, they buy it.  Whether it’s an hour of my time, a monthly service agreement, or an e-book, they’ll then PAY FOR IT.  That’s precisely where this ‘give away train’ has to stop.

Value

So MANY people are giving away and receiving free stuff.  We expect it.  But do we value it? John Jantsch just wrote a post on this topic, in part sparking my diatribe here.  I bought and heartily consumed his book, Duct Tape Marketing.  Just recently, on American Express Open Forum, Jatsch notes that by giving it away for free, we’re actually shooting ourselves in the foot.  We’re diminishing our own value.  We’re setting up expectations that all of our stuff is free, or should be, and in the long run, causing folks to overlook us when it’s time to shop for real value and services.

I know this to be true in my own case.  I have done and will continue to do pro bono work, but only with some really clear boundaries and expectations.  I did some pro bono marketing work for a local performing arts group and did such a good job giving away my services that when it was time to seek out bids for a marketing group, they overlooked me.  I apparently had a hobby.  When I corrected the assumption, the damage had already been done.  By that point, my price would be WAY out of line with the ‘value’ that I had already provided and the expectation that I had set up.  To go from free to $$$ is a hard leap for folks.

Final Plea

So, as both the consumer of your awesome content and the producer of services that I want to provide to you, PLEASE, make me pay before I play and in return, I’ll ask that you pay me before we play.  It really will work out well for us in the long run.  Don’t worry, I will ‘give away’ enough to make sure you know I know what I’m doing and what I can accomplish, but it won’t be in the form of an e-book or a free webinar.  It will be in the form of a conversation that you and I have, or a blog post that I write, or a video that I shoot.  It will also be evident in the results that I provide for my clients who will also happily tell you what I can do.  That’s where you’ll find my value.  That’s also where I’d like to find yours.

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Discussion

So, let me have it.  Has the ‘free’ way worked out for you?  Am I missing the boat?  Or, are you, like me, tired of this method of marketing?  Oh, and if you’d like to discuss one on one, email me or skype me at erica.allison.

 

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@annie fritschner, acfre Hi sweetie! Thank you for reading it and for your comment. I'm glad you found it to be a good reminder. It can be a tough one - esp when you have to remind people that you in fact do charge for your services. :)

@ExpatDoctorMom HI Rajka! I am sorry I missed responding to your comment! Very embarrassed. Thank you for subscribing - I did notice that and it's always a thrill! It's so hard to put a price on something sometimes, isn't it? We feel we're going to 'over price' it or devalue it, so we sometimes do nothing or slap a price on it that makes us feel off target afterwards. At least I have experienced that! I'm working daily on placing appropriate values on my services. Thanks again for stopping by! Always good to see you!

Thank you for this very important reminder Erica. As a mom/female/daughter I find it so important to remember this.

Hi Erica! I found this post via Gini's most recent post on e-books. Thanks @ginidietrich ! A big AMEN to your post. Agree whole heartedly. Particularly in that we devalue the product by not putting a price on it. It is human nature to think things which cost more are better. So put a price on it! I hope to have my first e-book out by late fall. Thanks Rajka "Ryka" PS I just followed you on twitter and subscribed!

@EricaAllison You seem able to set very clear boundaries and have difficult conversations - definitely not an easy thing to do. I admire that! We're working on the transition and it's slowly taking shape, but it takes clear boundaries, difficult conversations (sometimes), a plan, and commitment to make it happen. We're committed to helping get our members there and conversations like you bring up here are very helpful in the process. Thank you for sharing your ideas. : )

@ginidietrich Well then... I stand by my assessment. I think you've got an excellent strategy!

@fitzternet Yep, that's exactly what we're doing. The blog has been the build-up to Pro for nearly three years. The blogging, speaking, interviews, etc., are all part of the brand awareness and extending your reach.

@DannyBrown @EricaAllison @3HatsComm Danny was all safe and secure spouting this off four days ago from home. But now he has to face me and say this to my face! Bahahaha!

@TheJackB Interesting analogy and I'm sure there's some truth to it... But we've been wearing shirts for centuries and social media is a relatively new phenomenon. I imagine shirt sales didn't really take off until enough people were rockin' their freebie shirts around their caves. Disclaimer: I have no idea if shirts were invented during caveman times and I suddenly feel like I should have learned that in school. That said, I stand by my analogy.

@ginidietrich But Gini, aren't you using the free stuff to promote Spin Sucks Pro? I think that's what you're doing and I think it's an excellent strategy, so let me know if I'm wrong. When I release a film or DVD, I do as many newspaper and TV interviews as I can - all for free, of course. And that stuff isn't easy - travel, waiting, promoting the appearance, etc. I view blogging, live speaking, etc., as an extension of that. Besides, it's alot easier to write a blog post than it is to convince a booking person at FoxNews to put you on their morning show. I haven't written any e-books yet, so I can't say for sure how I would handle that. But I think I would once again use it to promote other paid services. The quality of the product should override the cost in the eyes of a smart consumer. And if it doesn't, it's their loss.

@wendykeneipp I always like the model that the non-profit you mention uses: exchange those checks! I have also written the full amount of a service on an invoice (if we're not going to exchange checks) and then discount it as pro bono so that the actual value is there in black and white. Makes an impact. I don't know how you're going to move your clients from receiving those value-added services for free to paying for them. That's a tough one! Expectations like that are hard to break. I had a somewhat similar situation in that I (whisper) lowered my base rate for a new client for a short period of time, with renegotiation of the contract after 3 months. At that point, she was so dependent on the services, she of course signed up for the 'regular' rate, but it took some very clear explaining that my services were not going to change with that new price. Her expectation was that if she paid more, she got more. I said no, you've received these services all along, at a discounted rate. This rate is what they cost. Good luck - it's a difficult spot to be in! .

@DannyBrown @ginidietrich I suspected as much...

@DannyBrown @EricaAllison @ginidietrich Why am I tempted to make a video of you trying to collect?

@DannyBrown @MummyinProvence @EricaAllison @johnfalchetto Oooh, Danny, have you thrown down a gauntlet or is that just :-) tongue in cheek? On a serious note: I think there's a huge difference between criticism and constructive criticism: the former is just b- - c h'in ...the latter, substantiated with potential solutions...or in your words...how it could be done better. The former is easy...the latter takes thought. Just my 2 cents. Cheers! Kaarina

@KDillabough @MummyinProvence @EricaAllison @johnfalchetto But of course. Just send the royalties in the mail... ;-) Like you say, criticism is easy, Kaarina - but I'll give more weight to your criticism if you can back it up with examples of how you've done it better. ;-)

@EricaAllison Man, you're as easily pleased as that @ginidietrich lass... ;-) You're welcome, miss, and again, great read. :)

@bdorman264 @KDillabough HA!!!! And thanks, Kaarina, hope you enjoy. :)

@EricaAllison @ginidietrich Here's the thing, though. Gini has built up her library of knowledge from my blog. But then I learned all I know from the TV show 24. So in a weird kinda way, it all comes back to Gini owing me money. ;-)

@EricaAllison @ginidietrich I agree with the both of you. Not everything in life is free. I still pay for a ton of information - I call them books and video courses. Gets me more of the information I need faster. That in turns gives me an edge that people that don't pay for any information are missing out on. Oh well - too bad so sad, but not for me :)

@ginidietrich I LOVE that answer. Spin Sucks Pro was on my mind when I wrote this post. As you know, I did sign up for it and attended that webinar yesterday - it was valuable info for me. You should charge for it. You DO give away plenty for free; asking folks to pay for something that takes them to another level is NOT a big leap.

@ginidietrich A-FREAKING-MEN to the nth degree!

You already know how I feel about this (cough, Spin Sucks Pro, cough) so A-FREAKING-MEN! There are so many of us, you included, that give a TON away. Not just blog posts, but our time, too. My favorite term (not) is, "Can I pick your brain?" But I'll be very honest and say it's really, really, really hard to get people to pay for content. We've had two people ask to attend yesterday's webinar for free because they've never interacted with our content. Um, no. But what you can do is read our blog, visit our Facebook page, follow us on Twitter, get into discussions on LinkedIn, where you can interact for free. But the paid stuff? Nope, you have to pay for it.

@EricaAllison I won't take any credit here - the more we business owners can exchange ideas the more ideas we can create ourselves, and blog posts get written. This is a very important issue that you bring up here as so many people are told they need to create a ton of free content in order to be competitive. This isn't always true, or sustainable in many cases. Something to test to be sure, but not always the leading strategy.

Hi Erica - great post! This is a hot topic with me. We're in an industry that is rapidly having to adjust to new compensation models due to health care legislation and one that has been giving value-added services away for free for many years. Seems a bit of an oxymoron, don't you think? If you're giving things away and you don't very clearly place some kind of dollar value on them, then of what value are they to anyone? Now we're trying to figure out how to go back and say "You know those free things we gave you so we could win your business? Well, they actually cost us a lot of money, and they help improve your business operations, so they really are valuable and worth compensation." Even if you are "giving it for free" you should never say that. Price out the job/service/etc with the retail cost and make it a donation-in-kind for pro-bono work (I had a not-for-profit exchange checks with us to make it an official transaction & donation - there were no mis-understandings on that one!). If it's a list of services/projects included with a package, be sure to detail the cost of each item so there is direct acknowledgement and agreement between you and the client on the costs should they be purchased separately. Keep rockin the boat, Erica! We need more of it out there!

@rdempsey as you know, you helped me gel this post together. I had read the Jantsch article before our call and then talking to you about that email list and hearing your completely awesome approach to converting the online relationships to an offline conversation made me think, enough, we don't need to perpetuate this cycle any further. Thanks, Robert! So appreciate you stopping by to comment.

@DannyBrown @adamtoporek It's *because* you saved the more in-depth strategies for your paying clients, your newest book and *not* the ebook, that you've got a balance to it all. That's my point...give away enough to land the client, but not so much that they expect it all the time.

@3HatsComm @KDillabough @adamtoporek @johnfalchetto @ShakirahDawud @DannyBrown Yay! my own special guide to Davina's acronyms...wait a minute, that's a public website...I'm late to the party, aren't I?

@TheJackB Great point, Jack about the shirts being sold for 2 different prices, yet being the same quality. Perception is a nasty bugger. I always remember hearing my dad say "You get what you pay for"...go for the cheapest and it's often just that. Now, the flip side of that is your shirt scenario. Go w/ the cheaper shirt and you get an incredible value. How do those examples play into this discussion? We have to really investigate what we're purchasing, read the blogs, read the fine print, find out where those shirts were made, are we comparing apples to apples, or mangoes to bananas? :) As a society, we've become too lazy to do the homework required to make an informed decision, so let's just go with free...if it's crap, we'll have used it for a little while and they'll be another 'free' one right behind it.

@lauraclick I think you're right, people do equate online with free. Guilty as charged. I'm not necessarily saying that we should all start charging for our blogs, but rather recognize that those blogs are like our intro, get to know you meeting. There's no need to go too far beyond that. I know the ebooks are used as marketing tools, but I also think that they're EVERYWHERE now and as such, that can also lead to the de-valuing of them. We definitely agree that there's a balance here; lately, I just feel like things are a bit out of balance.

@KDillabough and @3HatsComm , thanks for keeping @bdorman264 on his toes today!

@bdorman264 I have no doubt that if you go "knee to knee w/ the decision maker on a peer to peer relationship" you will indeed take it from there! And you're right, where I was going with that influencer reference is that you should indeed know who the 'right' ones are for you and what you're selling. I'm beginning to fully understand that one both on and offline! Thanks for stopping by the party! Hate that I had to leave it unattended for so long! Looks like @3HatsComm was working the room, though, so IAG. :)

@3HatsComm @bdorman264 Let's tag team, Davina. We can pretend we're the label police...you know,the ones that come knocking at your door when they find out you've removed the labels from your mattress, pillows, etc. :-)

@bdorman264 And now I'm stalking your mattress Bill:)

@3HatsComm @KDillabough @EricaAllison @adamtoporek @johnfalchetto @DannyBrown This is great, thanks--except why isn't your name at the top? ;P

@bdorman264 "Door opener" I like it. That's a big part of this Bill, name recognition so someone pays a little attention to you during your 5-minute phone call, only arranges that interruption 4 minutes into it instead of 2. On the free, once someone gets used to that.. they'll come back for more free or they'll jump to whomever will meet that price. It's a no win. It's a challenge, that power to walk away but it's one we've got to develop, learn to think not as a communicator in that moment but a business manager. Now.. you and your cash-filled mattress are in Florida, right? Good to know.

@KDillabough @EricaAllison @adamtoporek @johnfalchetto It's not an acronym as @ShakirahDawud and @DannyBrown figured out, it's that website. Anyway... here is a cheat sheet of abbreviations for you. http://www.netlingo.com/acronyms.php

@KDillabough @DannyBrown Will you forward it when you're done? Danny won't mind..............:)

Ok, I will respond but I charge a nickel a letter, not word mind you.......and this is what I charge people to read my blog posts; I've reverted to just stuffing the cash in my mattress now. You make a very good point; yes we seek out the 'free' but did that diminish the value in our minds. You will be willing to pay and sometimes pay more if you find value in it. Also, your influencer reference would be a great example of someone creating a value in your mind. It's all about creating value and having walk away power if your ultimate consumer doesn't 'get it' or appreciate what you are bringing to the table. Whatever it is your selling or the method of selling will not be a good fit for everybody. Therefore it also pays to know who is in your 'sweet spot' and this is where your time, energy and resources should be devoted. You make a good example as well with your experience providing a service for the non-profit; once you provided a service for free and even though it was a great job you diminshed your value in their eyes. It would be very hard for them to go back and pay you; there thinking being 'let's bring an outsider in'. My MO for internet presence and blogging is just name recognition. If I become a 'known' it helps me open doors and that's all I ask; get me knee to knee w/ the decision maker on a peer to peer relationship and I will take it from there. Good post and it appears the party has definitely started; good to see you.

@KDillabough @EricaAllison @3HatsComm @adamtoporek @johnfalchetto Ooh, I know that one! "Let Me Google That For You." It's a website Davina shared on a post at shonali 's blog a little ways back, and it lets you actually demonstrate the act of googling a question for someone. http://lmgtfy.com/. The ultimate sarcastic gag, and I'm still tryiing to figure out how to work it into one of my own posts.

@3HatsComm You mean, stash somewhere on your hard drive? I can't remember the last time I've actually read one, but you'll probably be better at putting them to good use than me :).

Fab post Erica! Not that long ago I wrote a post on my blog entitled: "Do we sign up for prizes or for value?" I was curious as to how people would respond to the concept of freebies. Although I think a sprinkling of "free stuff" can be fun, novel, informative and entertaining, the essence of who we are and what we do...well, "pay before you play" is where it's at. And now I gotta head over to @DannyBrown 's book!...and pay for it gladly:)

@3HatsComm @adamtoporek Sharing's where it's at Davina:)

@3HatsComm Davina, I just love this video: makes my LOL...if it wasn't so true!

@DannyBrown @johnfalchetto Another hit out of the park Danny!

@johnfalchetto Ah John, you're a man after my own heart. Because I do a ton of volunteer work in sports, our local theatre, etc. people expect that should apply to my profession...NOT. It took my quite some time to get the hang of the word NO, but I'm happy to say, it comes quite easily now. Don't get me wrong: I do pro bono work. But it's of my choosing, not another person's imploring. Cheers! Kaarina

@DannyBrown @MummyinProvence @EricaAllison @johnfalchetto Oh Danny, can I use your line? And a corollary to that when they complain that "anyone" could have done it: Any fool can criticize, condemn and complain - and most do (unknown) Cheers! Kaarina

@EricaAllison @3HatsComm @adamtoporek @johnfalchetto I agree Erica...we need a dictionary of Davina's acronyms. But then again...that would make me stop thinking so hard about what they mean. I'd lose my brain exercise that way:) Acronym away my friends! (but then maybe give us a heads up in a later trailer?) Cheers! Kaarina

This is a truly great and thought-provoking post, Erica. And, I think this is something that we, as marketers, all struggle with. I know I do. I think society does have the expectation that everything online should be free. I know I even do. Why pay for a perfectly good product or service when another one out that's just is good is free? I think people equate online with free. Yet, there are people who charge for blogs, e-letters and e-books. But, I think it would be hard to ask people to pay for every last piece of content. You make some things free and charge for others. The reason there are likely so many free ebooks is that they do work well as a way to get noticed and build your list. I think we all agree that free can be good to a point. After all, I'm sure that most of our blogs are free. We just can't make EVERYTHING be free or, you're right, we won't be able to pay the bills. Writing and strategy are valuable skills that people WILL pay for. It's just a matter of drawing the line and determining the right things to make free and the right things to charge for. It's just a matter of striking a balance and determining what's the best model for our own businesses.

@3HatsComm Davina, you should seriously consider patenting your acronyms and then selling us all a dictionary, because I haven't a clue what that one was....please divulge. And yes, @adamtoporek is spot on with his assessment of Danny and his blog . I agree with your sister, but as someone with food and wine clients, that is one of the best forms of marketing out there: fill your potential clients/customers w/wine and they will in fact purchase something. Almost everytime. @johnfalchetto

@DannyBrown Can you see me smiling from here, Danny? Truly, thank you. Thank you for reading it and thank you for that comment. My day has just been made! :)

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